Wednesday, 25 July 2012

RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls

Dear,wanabidii,
Let us not to disobey our African culture. Let us forget the western one. Waring mini skirt  it not good habit at all and also Waring long skirt is not old-fashioned. Be good. My advise. "PUT ON LONG SKIRT THEN OTHERS WILL ,AUTOMATICALLY, COPY FROM YOU AS GOOD FASHION OR GOOD HABIT"

God created men in LOVE ,let us live with LOVE


--- On Tue, 7/24/12, Mobhare Matinyi <matinyi@hotmail.com> wrote:

From: Mobhare Matinyi <matinyi@hotmail.com>
Subject: RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
To: "Wanabidii googlegroups" <wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
Date: Tuesday, July 24, 2012, 3:02 PM

Ndugu GM,
 
Hiyo umeitoa wapi?
Hebu kuwa mpekuzi badala ya kuchangia tu kwa kuwa una kompyuta/simu na muda na vidole vya kuandikia:
1. http://www.homeoffice.gov.uk/publications/science-research-statistics/research-statistics/crime-research/hosb1011/hosb1011?view=Binary
2. http://lipstick-feminists.org/post/1703888440/rape-in-france-statistics
3. http://www.thelocal.se/19102/20090427/ Sweden tops European rape league
 
Hizi zinakutosha.
 

 

Subject: Re: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
CC: tomlaiser@yahoo.com
From: gm26may@gmail.com
Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 18:56:12 +0000


Kwani ni Waafrika tu wanaobaka?

Acheni kujishusha kiasi hichi

Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on the Tigo Tanzania Network

From: Laurean Rugambwa <rugambwa@hotmail.com>
Sender: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 13:36:37 +0000
To: wanabidii wanabidii<wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
ReplyTo: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Cc: <tomlaiser@yahoo.com>
Subject: RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls

Dear Matinyi,
welcome back! we havent interacted for a while, last time tuliachana kwenye kiswahili fasaha. Kuna majibu nimeisha yatoa kwenye majibu nimemtumia Monica na Pius. Mimi sijakataa unachokisema, ndio maana nimesema mjadala usiishie kwenye mavazi tu. Suala la hisia za kuona nalifahamu, lakini ubakaji na early pregnancy havina uhusiano na hayo mambo, wanaofanya hivo ni washenzi tu na wanaisha kama wanyama.
 
Ninapo weka hoja yangu ni kwenye suala zima la mavazi ndo yawe eti yanawafanya watu wanabaka akina mama, sayansi haisemi ubake, inakutamanisha, lakini lazima tamaa hizo wewe zikutume ufanye uovu? tamaa mbona tunazipata kwenye vitu vya thamani dukani, kwenye restaurant, huwa tunachukua kwa nguvu?  Hivo, tujikite kama jamii juu ya suala la maadili yetu, na mavazi mimi sioni kama ndio sababu,  nasema haya bila kuathiri suala la maadili na tamaduni zetu za kiafrika.
 
Nimeishi kwenye jamii ya waafrika wao kila siku ni kubaka watoto, akina mama, sasa hilo utasema ni mavazi? Unajiuliza sisi ni wanyama? sisi tuna akili za namna gani?
 
Ni mjadala mpana na unapaswa ujadiliwe kwa mafungu sio kijumla jumla. Nikija DC next time ntakutafuta tunywe wote kahawa..
 
kila la heri,
LR


 


 

From: matinyi@hotmail.com
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
CC: tomlaiser@yahoo.com
Subject: RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 13:17:00 +0000

Laurean na wengineo mnaojidanganya,
 
Nguo za mwanamke kuanzia na jinsi zilivyo hadi rangi yake zina uwezo wa kuvuruga akili za mwanaume kutokana na sababu za kibaiolojia. Ni maumbile ya asili. Mwanaume huvutika kwa mwanamke kutokana na anachokiona machoni mwake na hii si sababu ya bure bure tu.
 
Kwa taarifa tu, hata viumbe wengine wameumbwa kivyao na kuna wengine ambao majike ndio huvutika kwa madume kutokana na wanachokiona, mfano ndege. Sidhani kama mwanamke ambaye hajawahi kuwa mwanaume ana nafasi ya kulijadili hili jambo kama ambavyo mwanaume ambaye hajawahi kuwa mwanamke asivyokuwa na fursa wala uwezo wa kujadili unyeti na uzito wa ujauzito. Siasa za usawa zisipingane na sayansi yenye uthibitisho. Ni kweli kwamba wanawake hawapaswi kutendewa vibaya na wanaume kutokana na mavazi yao lakini tusipinge ukweli kwamba mavazi ya wanawake yana nguvu yake kwa wanaume. Utafiti wa kisayansi unathibitisha hili na ngoja niweke linki chache hapa:
 
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/9220356/Men-prefer-women-in-red-because-they-think-they-will-sleep-with-them-on-first-date.html

Soma nukuu kidogo:
Psychologists who studied 120 male students aged 18 to 21 discovered that most thought choosing to wear red meant a woman had "greater sexual intent" and was more likely to jump into bed with a man than someone who opted for more neutral colours. The findings, published in the Journal of Social Psychology, confirm the powerful influence the colour of clothing has on how men perceive the opposite sex.
 
Mtaalam mmoja wa saikolojia, Givovate, alisema hivi: However, here, the high degree of self-eroticism characteristic of the female sex also plays an important role, given the pleasure that women feel in exhibiting their bodies. Frequently only by doing that do many women feel a good degree of sexual satisfaction ­ though, obviously, this is not all. Quoting Gikovate: "...starting with puberty, this pleasure is strongly reinforced by the fact that the female body becomes desirable to men; thus, for women, the pleasure in exhibiting themselves interweaves with the pleasure of feeling desired, in a way that this aspect of sexuality might assume a fundamental importance."
 
Nyongeza: . . . the male sexual desire is mostly stimulated by the sight and the aesthetics of the woman's body.
 
Naomba niweke faili la PDF kama kishikizo. Someni ni fupi tu. Nasisitiza, bado wanawake hawatakiwi kufanyiwa uhuni lakini wasijidanganye eti kwamba mavazi yao hayana mvuto na kiukweli mwanamke ambaye hajihisi kuwatisha wanaume kwa umbo lake ama mavazi yake huenda atakuwa na walakini kisaiklojia - kwa mujibu wa wataalam, siyo mimi.
 
Matinyi.
 
 

 



Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 13:00:08 +0100
From: malagila01@yahoo.co.uk
Subject: RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
CC: tomlaiser@yahoo.com


Laurean,

Mungu kamuumba mwanamke kwa maumbile ambayo yana mvuto kwa mwanaume. Yapo maeneo ya mwili ambayo yakiwekwa wazi wanavuta na kutia ushawishi wa ngono. Huu ni ukweli utakaobaki umesimama whether you are objective or not. Kupuuzia haya kwa jina la maendeleo, watu wanavaa nguo za aibu na kubakiza maeneo yao ya mwili wazi halafu unataka watu wawe objective! Kwa lipi!

Wewe, subiri ukae na watoto wako uwaeleze hayo. Waambie wavae hata nguo za ndani watembee hivyo na usubiri watazamaji wawe objective. Inawezekana kabisa wasibakwe, lakini watakuwa wanazongwa na watu/wanaume kana kwamba ni mzoga unaofuatwa na nzi. Why??

Kama wewe ni mzazi, simamia maadili mema. Kila mzazi anawajibika kwa mtoto wake sio kwa chakula na vingine bali kwa kujali maadili mema. Huu ni wajibu alioukabidhi Mungu kwa wazazi wote na watawajibika kwa hilo hapa na baadaye.

Mwenye sikio na asikie

Martin Pius
P. O. Box 561, BABATI
Manyara
Tanzania
Mob: +255 78 447 4940 / +255 71 3474940
Email:malagila01@yahoo.co.uk

--- On Tue, 24/7/12, Laurean Rugambwa B. <rugambwa@hotmail.com> wrote:

From: Laurean Rugambwa B. <rugambwa@hotmail.com>
Subject: RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
To: "wanabidii wanabidii" <wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
Date: Tuesday, 24 July, 2012, 14:26

Monica,
Miniskirt is not the reason for early and teen pregancy..  It is also not a reason for rape!!
We should try and be objective on this social matters, they are wide and we shouldnt confine ourselves with narrow minded thinking on the pretex of faith. What people( women) wear has nothing to do with thos evil acts like rape etc..
 
best regards,
LR

 



From: moninaike@hotmail.com
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Subject: RE: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 10:40:08 +0000

I dont know why can a  student want to look hot and sex .,is that
the purpose of going to school? That is why most of them got pregnant before they comlpete their studies.
and most of them failed their exams.
Congratulation Ruathia Head teacher keep it up.

 

Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 12:36:39 +0300
Subject: Re: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls
From: danielstephen688@gmail.com
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com

I support the girl from my heart

On 24 July 2012 11:53, <gm26may@gmail.com> wrote:

Hichi ndio kizazi cha Dot.Com
Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on the Tigo Tanzania Network

From: Yona Maro <oldmoshi@gmail.com>
Date: Tue, 24 Jul 2012 11:26:40 +0300
Subject: [wanabidii] Letter from a student in Ruathia girls

Hello DAILY POST.

Please hide my identity.

I'm a 15 year old student from Ruathia Girls in Kangema Kenya.

Two weeks ago we went on strike demanding that mini-skirts should be allowed at school.

Our problem is that the Head teacher doesn't want us to wear mini-skirts at school.

The mini-skirts allow fresh air inside the pants and also when you wear mini-skirt you become sexy and hot.

Now, is it bad to wear mini-skirts in school? Because we also feel outdated with those long skirts.

And other schools laugh at us when we wear long skirts.

Even recently our boy school dumped us claiming that 'tuko na ushamba'

This has really depressed us until we cannot even concentrate in school. We have lost our confidence and that's why we decided to strike to force the school to allow us to wear mini-skirts.

Please we need advice because we believe we are not doing any wrong thing

Yours Sincerely,

H.

http://www.kenyan-post.com/2012/07/letter-from-student-in-ruathia-girls.html

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