Monday 3 December 2012

Re: [wanabidii] Should pregnancy be a pre-requisite to marriage?

swala la mimba ni la jamii nzima na kwa kweli wanaume wanao uhusika mkubwa wa lawama.juu ya kama turuhusu mimba kabla ya ndoa ,hakuna jibu la mkato.naelewa maadili ya dini zetu,na nayaheshimu.lakini tukizingatia uzito wa mila zetu ya kupata mtoto tutaelewa shida inayowafika wale wanaokosa watoto.kwa hiyo nadhani hapa swala la culture kusigana na culture linatokea.nimewahi kusoma kazi moja ya kitheolojia,ambayo haijakubaliwa na kanisa katoliki.kwenye canon law ndoa huhesabika kukamilika baada ya kwa ratified and consumed.(ratum et consumatum) maana yake baada ya kufungwa kanisani,hukamilika ikiliwa(tafsiri yangu ya consumed) yaani kwa tendo la ndoa. lakini african apologetics wanasema kwa waafrika ndoa inakuwa haijakamilika mpaka anapopatikana mtoto wa kwanza.
Halafu nadhani tusitazame ubaya wa extra marital sex kwa sababu ya ukimwi au STDs, bali kwa sababu ni vibaya katika vyenyewe

On Tue, Dec 4, 2012 at 8:05 AM, Lushengo Lutinwa <lutinwa@gmail.com> wrote:
No, it shouldn't. Not all men marry in order to get children, others marry for the purpose of flashing the white stuff. I am told the other option (self service) has many negative side effects.

LL


On Tue, Dec 4, 2012 at 7:41 AM, Emmanueley <emmanueley@gmail.com> wrote:
Nila kusahau umepata STD mara ngapi?? 
Je baada ya kupata bado uoo salama kiuzazi ama umekausha tu?? 


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On Dec 4, 2012, at 7:11, Lutgard Kagaruki <lutgardk@yahoo.com> wrote:

Pole gm26,

Kumbe bado uko kwenye mila za kuolea mawifi na mashemeji? Mimi nilidhani hayo yalishakwisha! Sasa kwa mtindo huu, ukimwi utakwisha kweli? Maana mnachosema hapa ni kwamba una-test, ukikuta hakuna unaacha, unaangaza mbele kuendelea ku-test; kama bahati yako mbaya, waweza test mara kumi hujafanikiwa, hapo hujajua kuwa tatizo ni wewe (mwanaume)!! Wanawake wachache sana watakuwa na "courage" ya kusema "ngoja nihakikishe", ni wanaume wanaongang'ania! Mwanamke anaweza kuwa ametoa mimba sawa, wewe je, umelala na wangapi and actually kuwasaidia wangapi kuzitoa hizo mimba? Jichunguze, tafakari!! LKK 
 


From: "gm26may@gmail.com" <gm26may@gmail.com>
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Sent: Monday, December 3, 2012 10:53 PM
Subject: Re: [wanabidii] Should pregnancy be a pre-requisite to marriage?


YES

Lazima ucheki kama shamba lina rutuba au la!

Ukizingatia sasa twakutana makazini au vyuon wakati hatujuani historia zetu in details

Waweza kuta bint keshazitoa kama 7 hivi halafu mwaanza hangaika kutafuta tiba nayeye anauchuna kumbe anajua tatizo ni nin

Kwa upande mwingine kwa kuongezeka kwa idadi ya Wanaume suruali ni muhimu kwa mdada kutest kama yupo na right man kuliko kwenda kuanza kutukanwa na mawifi na wakwe zake kuwa anajaza choo

Alamsiki
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-----Original Message-----
From: Kusirie Senkondo <kusirie@gmail.com>
Sender: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Date: Mon, 3 Dec 2012 19:10:34
To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com<wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
Reply-To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Subject: Re: [wanabidii] Should pregnancy be a pre-requisite to marriage?

Big NO

Kusirie

On Dec 3, 2012, at 18:02, Rehema Kikwete <rehemaki@gmail.com> wrote:

> Looking around in our society , it gradually becoming a norm to see
> pregnant brides.
> This is against the dictates of most religion practiced . More
> worrying is when i see the daughters of parents who preach against
> this trend take the same route. People however justify their action
> with excuses like I want to be sure she is not barren; my auntie did
> not have a child after her marriage because of some witch that was
> present on the wedding day. i even hear some mother in-laws enforce it
> on the wife to be that she must be pregnant.
>
> So should pregnancy be a pre-requisite to marriage?
>
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