Wanawake leo wanataka haki sawa.lakini ukigawa mahitaji kaatika pande mbili sawa hawataki kusikia
On Jun 29, 2014 12:48 AM, "Erick Maro" <rikmaro@gmail.com> wrote:
-- Safi sana
On Jun 29, 2014 12:33 AM, "jones konga" <lufj.24@gmail.com> wrote:--ujumbe mzuri sana kwa vjana wetu
On 6/28/14, Fakhi Karume <fkarume@gmail.com> wrote:
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> MWANANGU MPENDWA, NAOMBA UNISIKILIZE KWA UZURII KABLA HUJAOA….
>
> 1. Mwanangu, mwanamke anaweza kuwa mkeo, mwingine anaweza kuwa mama wa
> watoto wako, lakini ukipata mwanamke ambae atakuwa kama mama kwako, mama
> kwa wanao na mama kwa familia, tafadhari mwanangu usimuache huyo!
>
> 2. Mwanangu, usimfanye mwanamke wako kuwa ndio wa kupika na kufanya kazi
> zote za jikoni peke yake, tabia hiyo sio nzuri Kwani hata nyakati zetu,
> mashamba yetu yalijulikana kwa majina yetu wanaume lakini tulifanya kazi
> pamoja!
>
> 3. Mwanangu, nikikwambia wewe ni kichwa cha familia, simaanishi kutuna kwa
> pochi lako, usiangalie kabisa pochi yako, angalia kama utaona tabasamu
> usoni kwa mke wako. Pesa sio kila kitu katika ndoa na haileti ukuu wa
> familia!
>
> 4. Mwanangu, ukitaka kuwa na maisha marefu, mwache mkeo awe na jukumu la
> kuratibu mshahara wako au kipato chako, haitakuwa rahisi kwa yeye kutumia
> hela hovyo wakati akijua kuwa nyumbani kuna mahitaji ya msingi, lakini hela
>
> zikiwa mikono mwako ataendelea kuomba hata kama utakuwa umeishiwa!
>
> 5. Mwanangu, Usithubutu kumpiga mkeo, maumivu ya kipigo hukaa ndani ya moyo
>
> wake kwa muda mrefu sana na huacha kidonda ambacho hukawia sana kupona. Ni
> hatari sana kuishi na mwanamke mwenye majeraha moyoni!
>
> 6. Mwanangu, sasa unaamua kuoa,kama bado utaendelea kuishi maisha kama ya
> ubachela na mke wako, sio muda mrefu utakuwa bacheol tena. ukioa Badilika
> anza kuishi maisha ya mke na mume!
>
> 7. Mwanangu, zamani,tulikuwa na wake wengi na watoto wengi kwa sababu
> tulikuwa na mashamba makubwa na mavuno yalikuwa makubwa, lakini kwa sasa
> maisha yamebadilika, kwa hiyo mkumbatie mwanamke wako peke yake kwani
> hakuna ardhi tena na mahitaji ya watoto ni makubwa sana. Angalia ukubwa wa
> familia yako!
>
> 8. Mwanangu, chini ya mwembe ambao nilikuwa nikikutana na mama yako inaweza
>
> kuwa ni hoteli kubwa kwa nyakati zenu,lakini kumbuka, kitu pekee
> tulichoweza kufanya chini ya mwembe ilikuwa ni kukumbatiana
> pekee.nakushauri ukikutana na marafiki wa kike kikubwa unachoweza kufanya
> nao ni kupeana mikono na ikizidi ni kukumbatiana hadharani sio vinginevyo!
>
> 9. Mwanangu, usibadilike mara utakapoanza kupata mafanikio Zaidi, kuliko
> kuwahudumia hao viruka njia wa mtaani ambao hawajui mmetoka wapi na mkeo,
> nakushauri utumie na kufurahia mafanikio yako na mkeo ambae aliweza
> kusimama imara wakati wote wa mapito yenu magumu.
>
> 10. Mwanangu, kumbuka unapoanza kusema au kuona mke wako kabadilika, ujue
> kuwa kuna kitu ambacho ulikuwa ukikifanya umeacha kukifanya. Jitathmini na
> anza kufanya au kutimiza wajibu wako.
>
> 11. Mwanangu, usijaribu kumfananisha au kumlinganisha mke wako na mwanamke
> mwingine wa nje, kwani hata yeye anakuvumilia sana na hajakufafanisha na
> mwanaume mwingine yoyote huko nje na ndio maana aliamua kuwa na wewe.
>
> 12. Mwanangu, sasa hivi kuna hiki kitu kinaitwa haki za wanawake, sawa,kama
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> mwanamke anasema ana haki sawa na wewe katika nyumba, basi gawanya mahitaji
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> yote ya ndani kwenu katika sehemu mbili zilizo sawa,halafu timiza nusu yako
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> na mwambie atimize nusu iliyobaki.
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> 13. Mwanangu, nilimuoa mama yako akiwa bado kigoli (bikra) na nilikuwa
> naenda sana kwao kabla sijamuoa, lakini kutomkuta mkeo bikra kusikufanye
> umlaumu kuwa alikuwa muhuni, kumbuka wanawake wa enzi zetu na wasasa ni
> tofauti, ulimchagua mwenyewe na ukigoli wake hukuujua kabisa. Usiingize
> mambo ya kabla ya ndoa kwenye ndoa yenu.
>
> 14. Mwanangu, sikuwapeleka dada zako shule kwa kuwa nilikuwa mjinga kama
> waze wengi wa hapa kijiji wasemavyo, tafadhari usifanye ujinga huu, kwani
> kiwango cha mafanikio ya wanawake sasa kimefanya wanaume waonekana ni watu
> wa kawaida sana na sio muhimu kama zamani, Ukijaliwa watoto wape elimu.
>
> 15. Mwanangu, zamani enzi za ujana wetu, wanawake walikuwa na urembo wa
> asili, ingawa siwezi kukudanganya, wengine waliongeza urembo kwa kujichora
> hina na hata kutoboa pua na masikio lakini usisahau hawakuonyesha maumbile
> yao nyeti hadharani kama sasa. Hakikisha mkeo analijua hili!
>
> 16. Mwanangu, mama yako na mimi hatuna hisa katika kila kitu kinachoendelea
>
> kwenye maisha yenu, jaribuni kutatua changamoto zenu wenyewe bila kila mara
>
> kuja kwetu kuomba usuluhishi. Ndoa ni pamoja na ukomavu wa kutatua
> changamoto zenu bila kuziuza kama gazeti kwa kila mtu.
>
> 17. Mwanangu,nilimnunulia mama yako kifaa cha kupikia vitumbua ili aanzishe
>
> mradi wa kuuza vitumbua, pia nilimsaidia kununua cherehani yake ya kwanza,
> tafadhari msaidie mke wako kutimiza ndoto zake kulingana na uwezo wako kama
>
> ambavyo unahangaika kutimiza ndoto zako.
>
> 18. Mwanangu, usiache kutusaidia mimi na mama yako, utu uzima una
> changamoto nyingi sana na Mungu akikujalia utaziona muda ukifika. Pamoja na
>
> kutimiza majukumu yako kama baba wa familia kumbuka pia bado tunaishi na
> wewe ni mtoto wetu.
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> 19. Mwanangu, kila upatapo muda wa kusali, Sali na familia yako, kuna kesho
>
> ambayo huijui, ongea na MUNGU wako ambae anajua kila kitu kila siku!
>
> 20.NAKUTAKIA MAISHA MEMA YA NDOA MWANANGU….NAKUPENDA!
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