Friday, 2 November 2012

Re: [TPN] Re: [wanabidii] Re: MAFANIKIO KUELEKEA MWISHO WA MICHANGO MIKUBWA YA SHEREHE

Nilipokuwa mdogo, ukisikia sehemu fulani kuna harusi au ndugu yako anooa au kuolewa, siku hizo zilikuwa za furaha sana yaani shamra shamra kila sehemu na kila mtu wa jamii yako ana participate fully kwenye kuiwezesha hiyo shughuli.

Siku ya harusi watu wote mtakula na mtakunywa na mtafurahi na maharusi watafurahia tendo hilo kushuhudiwa na na ndug na jamaa.

Lakini sasa, harusi hizi zilianza kubinafsishwa kwa watu wenye kipato na wasiokuwa nacho kuachwa pembeni wakishuhudia ndugu zao wa damu wakioa na kuolewa bila wao kushiriki, kisa kamati imeweka kiwango, imegawa kadi kufuatana na malipo, mbaya zahidi kadi zimeandikwa WATOTO HAWARUHUSIWI.

Hii hali imebadili maana nzima ya sherehe hizo, watu wana pledge kwa mbwembwe, mimi laki tano, sita nk. wa hamsini akisema kila mtu anageuka kumuangalia na huyo unakuta ndugu yake ndiye anayefanya sherehe, utasikia mwenyekiti akisema "Ongeza bwana hiyo haitoshi" bila shaka mtu huyo atajisikia vibaya.

Sasa basi ni bora mtu akitaka kufanya sherehe yoyote, akae na familia yake wapange bajeti, waorodheshe majina ya waalikwa bila kusahau ndugu wote wawe nacho, wasiwenacho, then wawape taarifa, atakayeona ona inafaaa kuchangia mkungu wa ndizi sawa, kreti ya sawa, ili mradi ajue hiyo siyo lazima ni hiari na haitamzuia ambaya hajaleta chochote kuhudhuria.

Tubadilike jamani, utakuta birthday, komunio au kipaimara cha watoto, hakuna mtoto hata mmoja, hakuna ndugu na jamaa hata mmoja kisa waliopo ndo wamechanga.

Nina imani nimeeleweka, tukianzia hapo tutaona kama either tuna umuhimu wa kuchangia sherehe au kutochanga

Clement Mwesiga



From: Dennis Makoi <dennismakoi@yahoo.com>
To: wineaster@udbs.udsm.ac.tz; mburao@yahoo.com; wanabidii@googlegroups.com
Cc: Donath R.Olomi <olomi@imedtz.org>; jkavishe@gmail.com; wanabidii@googlegroups.com; magesa@tanzaniaports.com; academicstaff@udbs.udsm.ac.tz; issamichuzi@gmail.com; johnbukuku@gmail.com; mjengwamaggid@gmail.com; haki.yako@gmail.com; wanataaluma@googlegroups.com; m_mbura@yahoo.co.uk; mhegera@hotmail.com; masaoe@hotmail.com; oswald_urassa@hotmail.com; innojg@me.com; jjnyella@hotmail.com; tmuganyizi@tra.go.tz; stmrema@hq.bot-tz.org; lextlm@hotmail.com; gokkibaga@gmail.com; dakifile@simbanet.net; geoffkasambula@yahoo.com; edwinfulltime@yahoo.com; dgtenga@hq.bot-tz.org; aamdimu@gmail.com; hkitenge@yahoo.com; salumm@hotmail.com; kfairom@gmail.com; askk@excite.com; jeffnsemwa@yahoo.co.uk; ericshitindi@utumishi.go.tz
Sent: Thursday, November 1, 2012 9:18 AM
Subject: [TPN] Re: [wanabidii] Re: MAFANIKIO KUELEKEA MWISHO WA MICHANGO MIKUBWA YA SHEREHE

Dear All

Inasikitisha na kusononesha sana  unapowasikia watu ambao ni wasomi waliotakiwa kuangalia mambo kwa mapana yake ili kusaidia Taifa letu na wana Nchi wake ambao  hawana upeo wa kuchanganua mambo Kitafa na Kimataifa ili kupata sababu za jamii kuteseka,kukosa amani kutokuwa na mifumo ya maendeleo na vurugu za kitaifa na kimataifa.
Mtu yeyote duniani atakubali kwamba ukitaka kuwa na Taifa lenye nguvu lazima ligenjwe na familia zenye nguvu na zilizo simama imara. Siku za nyuma watanzania waliheshimika sana mahali popote Duniani kwa sababu ya tabia yetu na utamaduni wetu Heshima hii bado ipo japo si kwa kiwango cha siku za nyuma  lakini mpaka leo mataifa mengine wanasema kama hutaweza kuishi Tanzania na Watanzania hutaweza kuishi mahali popote pale hapa Duniani.
Sababu kubwa ya hali hii inatokana na Utamaduni wetu tulionao. Utamaduni huu umejengwa na Mababu zetu kwa garama kubwa sana na kwa njia mbalimbali.
Utamaduni wa jamii au Nchi yeyote hapa duniani ndio upeo na dira wa ukuaji wa  uchumi wao. Angalia Nchi zilizo shikilia na kuendeleza utamaduni waao kama vile China Japan India nk ndizo ambazo uchumi wao unakuwa kwa haraka na uhakika.
Swala la sherehe za kuoana au Harusi za sisi Watanzania ni swala la Utamaduni wetu ukifafanua mahusiano ya watoto wetu yanavyo takiwa kuwashirikisha  wazazi na jamii katika kufikia swla la kuunda familia mpya.Kuunda familia mpya kwa jadi yetu ni swala la wazazi na jamii inayowazunguka tangu hapo kale.
Kuunda familia mpya ni jambo lenye uzito kuliko kununua gari au shamba ua chochote kile  kwani ndio msingi wa kujaliwa watoto kuwalea na kuwakuza
Kwa utamaduni wetu mtoto wako ni mtoto wa jamii yako yaani kaka dada mjomba baba mkubwa nk
Acha jambo kama hili liwe kwa garama yeyote kwani ni la jamii kwanini mnataka kuuwa utamaduni watu ? sasa hivi huko Ulaya vijana wanaokotana huko barabarani kama mbuzi na wanaachana kama kondoo kwani kwao ndoa haiwahusu wazazi wala mjomba
.Mkiruhusu hali hii mtakuwa mnaokota watoto barabarani na uchumi wenu hauwaruhusu kulea watoto kama hawa
Sasa hivi vijana wanaaza kusagaa mitaani na hapo watakapo tambua kwamba maisha yao hayana uhusiano na wazazi wao au jamaa zao akina Dr Olomi watawakibia watoto wake mwenyewe
Utafiti unaonyesha kwamba familia za watanzainia ni imara zaidi kuliko Nchi yeyote Afrika Mashariki
Wazungu wengi sasa wanakuja Tanzania sasa kwani wanaamini vijana wetu wa utamaduni wa kumjali mume na wazazi waki pia wanakubali kuzaa  watoto.
Tulee watoto wetu na kuwasaidia kuandaa familia mpya kwa garama yeyote ili kuadaa uchumi bora
Dr Olomi anatuambia tuwaelimishe vijana wetu kwa garama yeyote lakini akimaliza tumwache afe kwa ukimwi
nitaendelea siku ingine

Dennis Makoi

Managing Director
Nkomillo Enterprises Co Ltd,
9 Shekilango Road,
P O Box 79983,
Dar Es Salaam,
Tanzania.
Phone: + 255 754 333 751
E-mail: dennismakoi@yahoo.com

--- On Wed, 10/31/12, rkasesela@gmail.com <rkasesela@gmail.com> wrote:

From: rkasesela@gmail.com <rkasesela@gmail.com>
Subject: [wanabidii] Re: MAFANIKIO KUELEKEA MWISHO WA MICHANGO MIKUBWA YA SHEREHE
To: wineaster@udbs.udsm.ac.tz, mburao@yahoo.com
Cc: "Donath R.Olomi" <olomi@imedtz.org>, jkavishe@gmail.com, wanabidii@googlegroups.com, magesa@tanzaniaports.com, academicstaff@udbs.udsm.ac.tz, issamichuzi@gmail.com, johnbukuku@gmail.com, mjengwamaggid@gmail.com, haki.yako@gmail.com, wanataaluma@googlegroups.com, m_mbura@yahoo.co.uk, mhegera@hotmail.com, masaoe@hotmail.com, oswald_urassa@hotmail.com, innojg@me.com, jjnyella@hotmail.com, tmuganyizi@tra.go.tz, stmrema@hq.bot-tz.org, lextlm@hotmail.com, gokkibaga@gmail.com, dakifile@simbanet.net, geoffkasambula@yahoo.com, edwinfulltime@yahoo.com, dgtenga@hq.bot-tz.org, aamdimu@gmail.com, hkitenge@yahoo.com, salumm@hotmail.com, kfairom@gmail.com, askk@excite.com, jeffnsemwa@yahoo.co.uk, ericshitindi@utumishi.go.tz
Date: Wednesday, October 31, 2012, 11:00 AM

Hi all
Hivi tatizo ni michango ya harusi au poor planning?
Nahisi tupime jinsi gani tunavyo panga priority zetu.
Richard
Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone provided by Airtel Tanzania.

-----Original Message-----
From: wineaster@udbs.udsm.ac.tz
Date: Wed, 31 Oct 2012 17:43:41
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Subject: Re: MAFANIKIO KUELEKEA MWISHO WA MICHANGO MIKUBWA YA SHEREHE

Wasiwasi wangu mkubwa ni kuwa:

1. Je, issue ni kiwango tunachochanga au ni kutokuchanga
kabisa???Atakayefanikiwa katika hili (yaani kugomea mchango wa harusi),
huenda akahamia kwenye kugomea mchango mwingine na mwingine, eventually
tutabaki kama Westerners, we kaa kwako na mimi nikae kwangu! Bila kujua
tutaua hospitality na ujamii tuliyoizoea.

2. Tunapiga vita michango ya harusi, ila matokeo yake kiuchumi tutakuwa
tunapiga vita na biashara mbalimbali, yaani kumbi za sherehe, waleta
vyakula na vinywaji, waleta muziki, tarumbeta, MC, nk. Mwishoni tutakuwa
tunasababisha uchumi wa wahusika wote kwenye value chain nzima
kuzorota.Kumbuka watoa huduma wote wanatumia hela wanayoipata kwenye
sherehe husika kupelekea watoto wao shule, hospitali, n.k. Je, ukikutana
naye amesimama njiani akakuomba mchango wa mwanae utampatia? Ni bora
anapofanya kazi husika akalipwa indirectly kwenye harusi, na sisi maisha
yetu yakaendelea. Au?

Nchi zote zilizoendelea wana-encourage consumption ya watu wake ili
viwanda vizalishe watu wapate ajira, n.k. Sisi tukipiga vita sherehe ya
harusi moja (mfano), je unajua unasimamisha ajira ngapi? Wajasiriamali, ni
aje tena?

Tufikiri zaidi,

Wineaster

Dr. Wineaster Anderson
Director
University of Dar es Salaam Quality Assurance Bureau
Senior Lecturer, Department of Marketing
P.O.Box 35046
Dar es Salaam-TANZANIA
Mob: +255 (655/688/754)387250

Publications:

http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.1080/13032917.2011.633041
http://www.esv.info/contributor/WINEASTERANDERSON/katalog.html
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15228916.2011.588912
http://arajournal.net/article/veure/id/44
http://www.emeraldinsight.com/10.1108/16605371011083495
http://www.informaworld.com/smpp/content~db=all~content=a910339555
http://www.acp-edulink.eu/node/2066
http://www.emeraldinsight.com/journals.htm?articleid=1796085&show
http://www.theiimp.org/PDF/ijmpp2.pdf#page=32
http://www.chios.aegean.gr/tourism/VOLUME_7_No1_art16.pdf




On Tue, October 30, 2012 9:32 pm, Omari Mbura wrote:
> Ndugu wadau wa uchangaji wa harusi,
> Niseme wazi kuwa fedha inauma kuitoa kwa madhumni yoyote yale. Hata haya
> ambayo yanaonekana kuwa ya umuhimu iwe ni elimu, matatzo n.k. Lakini
> inatubidi kuitoa fedha hiyo kutokana na msukumo unaotokana na wale
> tunaowatolea fedha hizo. Tumeendelea kutoa michango kwa matatizo na pia
> kwa furaha. Kuna ubaya gani ukichangia masuala yote haya ya furaha,
> maendeleo ya kielimu n.k na ya huzuni. Haya ndiyo yanaleta mshikamano
> zaidi. Tofauti kidogo na maelezo yaliyotolewa ni kuwa naona michango ya
> harusi imekuwa zaidi na watu hulaumu sana wasiposhirikishwa. Na watu
> wanatoa fedha hizi kwa furaha na wakatio mwingine kwa mbwembwe zaidi
> lakini ni kwa kuwa wanawiwa zaidi.
>
> Mimi naamini mtu ukimuozesha vizuri atajitahidi kuzaa kwa mpango na
> kusomesha kwa kadri inavyowezekana.
>
> Huyu Dr Olomi pia anapata taabu sana kuacha michango hii. Amelazimika mara
> chache ninazofahamu kutoa michango baada ya harusi ya baadhi ya watu walio
> karibu naye. Sijajua madhumuni yake. Na pia itakuwa je usipoalikwa kwenye
> shughuli inayokugusa. Maana kwa kawaida ndivyo ilivyo -no mchngao no
> mualiko. Nadhani hapa ni suala la personality na passion zaidi. Kama uko
> sociable na assertive itakuwa vigumu sana kuziba uso ili usichangie hasa
> kwa yule anayekuhusu. Najaribu kuangalia namna ambavyo mtoto wa watu kama
> wa rafiki yangu Dr olomi -generation za sasa watakapooplewa au kuoa na
> wakawa wanataka kwenda na wakati- patakuwa hapakaliki endapo mzazi
> hatajali na hatapenda hilo lisifanyike au angalau asishiriki. Ushauri ni
> kuwa tusijiingize kwenye migomo ambayo inataka ujasiri kuikomesha.
>
> Lakini kama uko introvert na non assertive unaweza kufanikiwa kugomea.
> Nian uhakika nimfahamuvyo Dr  Olomi na wengine wa aina yake wana pata
> stress kupambana na hali hii maana sio walivyo. Na ndio maana mara chache
> nimefahamu kuwa wanalzimika kutoa zawadi etc tena za thamani zadi ya
> michnago yenyewe baada ya harusi. Sasa unafanya nini hapa. Sio kujikosha
> kwa mhusika?.Huu bado ni mchnago tu. Nadhani ttujiangalie perosnalty zetu
> kwanza. Tujitambue. Tukiweza tusaidianeni kwa yote tu. after all we are
> too busy. Hizi ndoio njia za kukutana na kufurahi na hivyo energize
> ourselves for another entrepreneurial set up. KAVISHE  huwezi anachosema
> Dr Olomi acha.
>> Kavishe, asante sana
>>
>> Umesema unahitaji methodology ya kugoma kuchanga. Ni rahisi. Fuata hatua
>> tatu.
>>
>> Kwanza unaamua kwa dhati kwamba unataka kuacha.
>>
>> Pili unatangaza kwa mtandao unaokuzunguka, ambao wanategemea kukuletea
>> kadi. Mimi nilitumia sms na e-mail.
>>
>> Tatu unashika msimamo. Kuna watu tunaheshimiana sana waliniambia siwezi
>> kuacha kuwachangia wakisema kwa kujiamini sana. Mimi nilitabasamu tu.,
>> lakini sikuchanga. Inataka roho ngumu. Bahati nzuri wote wanaendelea
>> kuwa
>> marafiki na tunaendelea kuheshimiana. Nimejifunza kwenye maisha kwamba
>> kuwa na msimamo kunaleta heshima hata kama mtu hakubaliano nawe 100%.
>> Bahati nzuri ni nadra kupata mtu asiyekubali kuwa utaratibu huu wa
>> kuchanga umezidi mipaka na unatakiwa kudhibitiswa.
>>
>> Natumai imesaidia
>>
>> % On Wednesday, August 8, 2012 1:45:03 PM UTC+3, Donath R.Olomi wrote:
>> %> Ndugu zangu, Disemba 2010, niliandika waraka wa kuhimiza kubadili
>> %> desturi ya kuchangisha mamilioni ya fedha kwa ajili ya kufanya
>> sherehe
>> %> kubwa, nikitoa mifano hai jinsi michango hii inavyowaumiza baadhi ya
>> %> wachangaji, na kuathiri maisha yao. Vile vile nilielezea umuhimu wa
>> %> wasomi kuwa chachu na viongozi wa kubadili desturi ambazo zinaleta
>> %> madhara, ikiwemo ya kuchangia sherehe kubwa. Ikumbukwe kuwa desturi
>> %> ikishajengeka, inajijengea uhalali wake na kuibadili kunahitaji
>> msukumo.
>> %> Nafurahi kuwa karibu kila aliyechangia mjadala ule aliuunga mkono, na
>> %> pia kwamba kuna ambao walishaanza siku nyingi kuacha kuchanga na
>> kufanya
>> %> kampeni hii hata kabla ya waraka wangu (ona kiambatanisho). Napenda
>> pia
>> %> kuwafahamisha kuwa, nimefanikiwa kutimiza ahadi yangu, na sasa
>> nashiriki
>> %> kuchangia tu sherehe ndani ya familia. Taratibu idadi ya kadi za
>> %> michango ninazopata imeshuka na sasa imekaribia 0. Pia kuna watu
>> wengi
>> %> wanaonizunguka ambao wameniambia kuwa kadi za michango wanazopata
>> %> zimepungua. Kuna watu nafahamu walikuwa wakigawa kadi kwa kila
>> wamjuaye
>> %> miaka ya nyuma, lakini sasa wanapooza au kuozesha wanachagua nani
>> wampe
>> %> kadi. Pia watu ninaowafahamu wanaopata kadi na kuacha kuzichangia
>> bila
>> %> kuona aibu wameongezeka. Kwa hiyo tumepiga hatua. Natamani tungekuwa
>> na
>> %> utafiti wa kisayansi kuona hii desturi inavyobadilika. Nashukuru sana
>> %> kwamba kuacha kuchangia harusi hakujaniletea matatizo yeyote ya
>> kuharibu
>> %> mahusiano na watu wengine. Kuna watu sikuchangia harusi zao na za
>> wanao
>> %> na uhusiano wetu umezidi kuimarika. Kwani kutoa kwa ajili ya kujenga
>> %> mahusiano lazima iwe kwa kuchangia sherehe tu? La hasha. Kuna
>> wachache
>> %> wamekuwa wakinialika kwenye sherehe zao ingawa sijachanga ï¿Â½ kwa
>> %> sababu ya ukaribu wetu ï¿Â½ nami nakwenda kwa sababu ya ukaribu. Na
>> %> mimi nikiwa na sherehe nitakualika si kwa sababu umenichangia, ila
>> kwa
>> %> kuwa ningependa uwepo kama mtu wa karibu. Leo napenda kuwashirikisha
>> %> mawazo yaliyotolewa katika huu mjadala. Unaposoma na hata unapoongea
>> na
>> %> watu mtaani, unaona kuwa jamii imelichoka hili jambo, na ingependa
>> %> libadilike, ila tu baadhi wanaogopa. Wako wachache wanapenda
>> liendelee,
>> %> ama kwa sababu kweli wanaamini ni jambo zuri, ama kwa sababu
>> %> linawasaidia wao moja kwa moja. Hawa hatuna la kufanya mbali na
>> %> kuwanyima michango wabadilike kidogokidogo. Kuna ambao wanasema
>> sherehe
>> %> zinasaidia uchumi. Kwani fedha isipotumika kwa sherehe si itatumika
>> %> kufanya kazi nyingine ambazo zitajenga uchumi ambazo hazifanyiki kwa
>> %> kuwa fedha zinakwenda kwenye sherehe kubwa? Kiuchumi tunasema kila
>> kitu
>> %> kina ï¿Â½opportunity costï¿Â½. Unachokitumia huku unashidwa
>> %> kukitumia kuleï¿Â½ Wanaochanga wangetumia fedha hizo kwenye ada,
>> %> kujenga nyumba, kukarabati choo kilichoharibika, kuboresha lishe
>> %> nyumbani, nk. Hivi navyo vinajenga uchumi. Naomba kuwasilisha Na
>> %> tafadhali sambaza, na tushirikishe uzoefu wako -- ï¿Â½Give your
>> energy
>> %> to things that give you energy.ï¿Â½, ï¿Â½Learn enough to begin
>> and
>> %> then learn as you go.ï¿Â½ Dr. Donath R.Olomi Chief Executive
>> Officer
>> %> Institute of Management and Entrepreneurship Development (IMED)
>> Mwalimu
>> %> House 7th Floor, Ilala P.O. Box 35036 Dar es Salaam, Tanzania E-mail:
>> %> info@imedtz.org, website: www.imedtz.org Mobile +255-754-296660
>> %
>> %>>>>tunaomba methodology za namna ya kugoma kuchangia maana wanameno
>> hawa
>> %>>>> watu..utadhani unadeni la michango!
>> %
>>
>>
>> --
>> "Give your energy to things that give you energy.",
>>
>> "Learn enough to begin and then learn as you go."
>>
>>
>> Dr. Donath R.Olomi
>> Chief Executive Officer
>> Institute of Management and Entrepreneurship Development (IMED)
>> Mwalimu  House 7th Floor, Ilala
>> P.O. Box 35036 Dar es Salaam, Tanzania E-mail: info@imedtz.org, website:
>> www.imedtz.org
>> Mobile +255-754-296660
>>
>
>
> Dr Omari K. Mbura,
> Marketing Manager,
> University of Dar Es Salaam
> Box 35046,
> Tel.Mobile.0754264591 and 0715264591
> Res.22 2650534
>
>
>




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