Asante sana Kaka Sylvanus. Nashukuru Mungu sikutumia nguvu yoyote kuelewa uimanishacho. Jmn tukibahatika kutoka nje ya Tanzania tupate na muda wa kujifunza vitu kama hivi. Hv kweli kuna kama mimi nadamka alfajiri kama wewe baba, nikifika ofisini natumikishwa na mwajiri kama wewe utumikishwavyo na bado pato la ndani nawajibika kuchangia sasa kwanini mimi nigeuzwe punda na Baba awe Mtu wa kuinjoy life?. Unajua nyakati zimebadilika hakunaga tena wanawake wa kukaa vibarazani na kupaka hina na wanja wakisubiri kuletewa na kama wapo basi hao hawafai kuwa na house girl ndani na kama wanao basi ni dhambi kubwa waache mara moja.
Wamama wengi tunaonekana wazee wa kuchonga na kuweka mguu juu ili hina ikauke si kweli. Shida inapokuja ni pale Mama anapokuwa ktk harakati za kuinsisti maswala muhimu ya familia BABA anaona ni kelele . BAADHI na SIO WOTE ya waBaba wapendacho ni kula bata kuja nyumbani usiku wa manane ikifahamu kabisa atakuta wife amelala ili afunguliwe mlango na msichana wa kazi. Na kama ujuavyo wengi wa wasichana hawa wako na agenda zao za siri miyoyoni mwao, na inapotokea baba nae hamnazo unarudi nyumbani na mapombe yako na mbaya zaidi ikatokea ukakosea badala ya kufungua pazia ukafungua khanga ya binti kifuani unategemea nini hapo? Wababa nao wako smart wanapendaga sana kumega mahouse girl wakijua sio wagawaji muda wote anashinda kwa himaya yake, hawanaga gharama haitaji guest house makochi tuu au nyuma ya mlango panatosha sana, n.k. .
Sopoint yangu ya Msingi hapa ni kwamba tunawajibika kusaidiana kwenye nyumba Mkeo sio punda wako, Waume muwe considerate tena especial kama wewe mkeo naye ni mwajiriwa. Ikifika ukathamini House girl kushinda mkeo basi uwahi kwa Psychatric Dr. House girl hana thaman aliyenayo mkeo. Dada Fatma bd natambua thamani ambayo sisi akina mama tunapaswa kuwapa wasaidizi wetu wa ndani, lakini pia nakataa perception za walio wengi kuwa House girl ndio engine ya nyumba................ Na Ndio maana tukawa na DIVISION of Labour. ndugu zanguni.
2014-09-12 7:50 GMT+03:00 'Sylvanus Kessy' via Wanabidii <wanabidii@googlegroups.com>:
Naunga mkono, kuwa na house girl ndani ya nyumba ni uvivu si tu kwa akina mama bali wote, baba na mama au mke na mume. Wote wawili wakisaidiana kazi za ndani hakuihitaji mhudumu wa ndani.
Huku Ulaya (Ujerumani) kitu kama hicho hakipo. Utakuta familia inashirikiana kumudu kazi zote bila kuhitaji msaada zaidi. Kwetu waafrika nadhani tuna bado ule umwenye, Umangi kuwa Bwana ni kungoja chakula mezani au kwenda viwanja (kwenye baa) au kupiga zoga na wenzake hali mke aogeshe watoto, afue, apike, adeki kuanda chakula mezani nk. hakika mama hataweza. Kwa wenzetu kazi zote ndani ya nyumba mme na mke hushirikiana. Kupika, kufua, kudeki nk.
Kingine Ulaya hakuna cha kibarua. Iwapo utakuwa na mfanyakazi wa Ndani utafuata taratibu zooote za ajira. Na utalimpa kwa kiwango. Nadhani mfumo wa vibarua na ulalahoi na ukubwa wa familia unatulemea. Yafaa kabisa tubadilike kifikra.
Kuna kijana mmoja (miaka 24 hivi), alisha wahi fika Ofisini kwangu. Kajieleza nimsaidie sh 3,500 hela ya cheti cha hospital. Nilipomhoji zaidi akaniambia ana watoto 5 kwa wanawake 4. Nikahemwa, nikafunga ofisi nikatoka nje. Nikajua kuwa watoto wote hao ni mlolongo wa maskini Tanzania. Hivyo hiyo vita ya kupambana na umasikini bila kuelimisha watu kiakili ni kazi bure. Utazaaje watoto hali huna mpango wowote wa kuwatunza na kuwapatia mahitaji yao stahiki? Tubadilike.
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On Fri, 9/12/14, 'lesian mollel' via Wanabidii <wanabidii@googlegroups.com> wrote:
Subject: Re: [wanabidii] KINA MAMA ACHENI UVIVU MNAHARIBU NDOA ZENU
To: "wanabidii@googlegroups.com" <wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
Date: Friday, September 12, 2014, 12:20 AM
Nini maana aga ya
zile training za kitchen party? au ni kupeana vyombo
tu.....cc masaini wabibi wanafanya darasa maalum la role ya
mama ktk nyumba na ethics kibao wanapewa ndio maana ni vigum
sana mama wa kimasai kuachika, they know their role
.......hii mama ya mijini ni hatari tupuuuuuuu
On Thursday,
September 11, 2014 11:46 AM, mngonge franco
<mngonge@gmail.com> wrote:
Ipo haja ya kuanzisha
semina au course mbalimbali za kuwaelimisha akina mama , ma
housegirls na hata akina baba namna ya ku manage mambo ya
nyumbani kwa kushirikiana. Shria zilizopo khuhusu ajira ya
watau kama mahousegirl ziangaliwe upya ili kuwadhibiti
waajiri nuksi
On Thu, Sep 11, 2014
at 7:18 PM, Erick Maro <rikmaro@gmail.com>
wrote:
HILO NALO NENO.
On Sep 11, 2014 6:34
PM, "Abby Mrisho" <abbymrisho@gmail.com>
wrote:
Wape wape dada, msg delivered!
2014-09-11 17:17
GMT+03:00 Jovias Mwesiga <ngonzy@gmail.com>:
Fatma wabenjing hawataki.hilo
On Sep 11, 2014 8:29
AM, "Fatima Husenali" <husenalif@gmail.com>
wrote:
Asilimia
kubwa ya akina mama sasa hivi wanalalamika uhaba wa wadada
wa kazi, na wengine wanalalamika kuhujumiwa ndoa zao na
wadada hao, lakini ukichunguza kwa makini kuna upuuzi mwingi
sana unaofanyika, wadada wa kazi wanatumika kama Punda,
hapumziki kuanzia asubuhi mpaka jioni, ni wachache sana
wanaishi nao kibinaadamu, akina mama punguzeni uvivu, wadada
wa kazi nao ni binaadamu, haiwezekani wewe vilikushinda
alafu umchukue mtoto wa watu uje kumtumikisha kutwa wewe
umekaa miguu juu utafikili ndoa
uliambiwa ni maonyesho ya sabasaba, mkiendelea hivyo kila
siku wadada wa kazi watawapindua kwenye ndoa sababu ni
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