It will all depend on how strong the love is, if a man/woman feels that it is a must to take the woman/man he/she must first of all make agreement with the woman/man about the fate of her/his child, whether to stay with the kid or to look for alternative ways. But if the man/woman feels that it is not a must why not marry a fresh woman/man? In swahili we say "ukipenda ua basi unalazimika kupenda na boga lake.
On Fri, May 31, 2013 at 7:49 AM, <kimdr53@gmail.com> wrote:
I agree with both of U, in fact in countries like South Africa, Namibia and Botswana it is very common. A man pays for Lobola which is Mahali in East Africa and he automatically becomes the father of the child.
Idriss MussaSent from my BlackBerry® smartphone from Orange BotswanaFrom: anna nyanga <luguanna@yahoo.com>Sender: wanabidii@googlegroups.comDate: Thu, 30 May 2013 21:16:02 -0700 (PDT)ReplyTo: wanabidii@googlegroups.comSubject: Re: [wanabidii] Re: Kid out of Wedlock!Brave response!.The reverse is true.....a man with children is also a package!From: Maurice Oduor <mauricejoduor@gmail.com>
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CourageEvans,If you know the woman's situation and you still fall in love with her, you take her and her baby as a package or you don't. No 2 ways about it. They come as a package. This is an age old question in a lot of re-marriages nowadays.
--On Thu, May 30, 2013 at 11:51 PM, Evans MACHERA <evansmachera@yahoo.com> wrote:
--Ladies;-You got a child (9 months old) out of wedlock and here is a man who wants you for marriage but wont hear that you are comming in with the child got with someone else.How do you pick up!Guys;-Here is a woman you want,but has a kid sired out of wedlock.Mmmmmhhhh say something!Evans MACHERAParental responsibility is shared!
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