Monday 7 October 2013

RE: [wanabidii] Using Sex as a Reward !!!!!!


Nothing new. This a basic principle in and of our nature......either punishing or rewarding. Sex being the most important item in human life cannot escape to be used as a punishment when denied and as a reward when offered. This is very natural. Since men were naturally made to beg for it from women, then to them it is more likely to be used against them or as a gift. It could also be a reason why evil rebels use it as a weapon against women, and unfortunately even good soldiers use it to reward themselves after victory. This is simply ......nature.

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From: Maurice Oduor <mauricejoduor@gmail.com>
Date: 10/07/2013 9:48 PM (GMT+03:00)
To: Progressive Kenyans <progressive-kenyans@googlegroups.com>
Cc: wanakenya@googlegroups.com,KOL <kenyaonline@yahoogroups.com>,VVM Vuguvugu Mashinani <VuguVuguMashinani@yahoogroups.com>,Kiswahili <Kiswahili@yahoogroups.com>,wanabidii <wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
Subject: [wanabidii] Using Sex as a Reward !!!!!!


This is a new one !!!!  I thought sex was something couples just did whether they were happy or unhappy with each other anyway. I guess I'm meeting the right women then. All the women I meet always set this rule down on  Day One that no matter how angry we're are with each other, sex should not be withdrawn or used as a reward. it should be there according to the frequency we've become accustomed to.

Anyway, here is some lame study out of the UK. I hate to think that some kid got a Masters with this study and is now working somewhere and considered an expert on marital issues !!!!!  It's too simplistic a study. It only interviewed co-habiting couples. I wish they focused on married couples only.

http://www.standardmedia.co.ke/?articleID=2000094893&story_title=help-our-suicidal-mum-tuju-s-twins-ask-court&pageNo=2

Health:'Majority of women' use the promise of sex as a reward

Updated Monday, October 7th 2013 at 15:07 GMT +3


Around 65 per cent of women use the promise of sex as a reward, a new study has found.


Research into the sex lives and preferences of co-habiting couples in the UK discovered that women are more likely than men to use sex as a reward for 'good behaviour'.


The study, conducted by  ukmedix.com, spoke to 1,994 men and women aged 18 and over, all of whom were in co-habiting relationships.


Asked 'Have you ever used sex as a reward for your partner, either past or present?', two thirds of women answered 'yes', while just 11 per cent of men said they had done the same.


The most common behaviours rewarded with sex were helping around the home (38 per cent of women had rewarded their partner with sex for this), giving the woman a gift or treat (34 per cent) and looking after family members, including children (28 per cent).


Cooking a meal (21 per cent), playing taxi (19 per cent) and letting the woman take a break from sex for a while were also frequently rewarded with intimacy.


Meanwhile, men were most likely to reward their partners with sex for letting them watch sport on TV or in real life, with 35 per cent of men admitting to this. And 17 per cent of men rewarded their other halves for allowing them a night out with friends.


In total, 78 per cent of people questioned as part of the study thought there was nothing wrong with rewarding a partner with sex.


Thomas O'Connell of ukmedix.com commented on the findings: 'Intimacy and the part it plays in relationships can be incredibly interesting, and with this study we particularly wanted to look at how men and women may use intimacy to encourage certain behaviours from their partner.


'To see that so many women, much more so than men, use it as a reward was an eye-opener; but it's apparent that intimacy is somewhat of a weapon when it comes to getting your partner to do what you'd like them to. One thing's for sure, both men and women are guilty of it, and no one seems to mind!'

Adapted from The Metro




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