Fatuma,
Your husband is testing you. Be careful! Did you catch him. Hell no! Then what pushed him to disclose about an affair which does not exist anymore? Your marriage is still stronger.
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On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 4:28 AM PDT mouddymtoi@gmail.com wrote:
>Mpe mambo kama hajawahi kupewa kabla, don't ignore him in any circumstance, love him like you never loved before, bring back the trust and anything he deed tell him "I trust you so much" nimeingia cha kike kutoa msaada.
>Mohamedi Mtoi Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone on the Tigo Tanzania Network
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>-----Original Message-----
>From: Fatima Husenali <husenalif@gmail.com>
>Sender: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
>Date: Sun, 16 Sep 2012 13:39:30
>To: <wanabidii@googlegroups.com>
>Reply-To: wanabidii@googlegroups.com
>Subject: [wanabidii] Can A marriage ever be stronger again after an Affair?
>
> I just went through a very heartbreaking news from my husband on our
>family vacation this summer that he has been in a relationship for almost a
>year and he just broke it and now it's over and he wanted to apologize for
>this.
>
>My jaws dropped and I lost my appetite right away, seriously I am very sad
>right now,I trusted this guy with all my heart, we are doing very well, we
>are both proffesionals and most of all we have *children together and he is
>a very good Dad.
>
>I can't tell my family because they will have no more respect for him
>especially my siblings of his age, I ve been dealing with this since June
>and I'm about to burst, I feel numb and depressed everytime and now I stay
>longer at work doing nothing just to make sure he is in bed before I get
>home but he is always waiting for me.
>
>we have been to therapy and family councelling but you know I still feel
>very hurt and unsettled.
>
>I think I have said enough for good readers (especially women)to understand
>how I feel.
>
>And just so you all know, I am an average good looking proffesional woman
>with kids,with a very good statistics and I actually just got
>b.implants(9k), it's not easy going through surgery just cause you want to
>spice up your sex life.
>
>Anyways my question is: Could a relationship/marriage can ever be stronger
>again after an Affair? What's next for me?
>
>please this is not a joke, its real, be serious, thank you.
>
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