Fatima,
Lemme quote the question u posed in ur email to us:
Qn: "Could a relationship/marriage can ever be stronger again after an Affair?"
My Answer:
I don't think so. If by stronger you are comparing the strength of your relationship "Pre-cheating" and "Post-cheating" I'm hoping that it'll never get stronger as it shouldn't! If our relationships get stronger by being cheated then that wi'll be the end of the marriage institution as we know it! Having said that I think you can still have a happy love life after that, only that it won't be STRONGER!
On Sun, Sep 16, 2012 at 1:39 PM, Fatima Husenali <husenalif@gmail.com> wrote:
I just went through a very heartbreaking news from my husband on our family vacation this summer that he has been in a relationship for almost a year and he just broke it and now it's over and he wanted to apologize for this.
My jaws dropped and I lost my appetite right away, seriously I am very sad right now,I trusted this guy with all my heart, we are doing very well, we are both proffesionals and most of all we have *children together and he is a very good Dad.
I can't tell my family because they will have no more respect for him especially my siblings of his age, I ve been dealing with this since June and I'm about to burst, I feel numb and depressed everytime and now I stay longer at work doing nothing just to make sure he is in bed before I get home but he is always waiting for me.
we have been to therapy and family councelling but you know I still feel very hurt and unsettled.
I think I have said enough for good readers (especially women)to understand how I feel.
And just so you all know, I am an average good looking proffesional woman with kids,with a very good statistics and I actually just got b.implants(9k), it's not easy going through surgery just cause you want to spice up your sex life.
Anyways my question is: Could a relationship/marriage can ever be stronger again after an Affair? What's next for me?
please this is not a joke, its real, be serious, thank you. --
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